Thanks for sharing! Great to hear this from a male perspective. Sometimes even when we rationally know that love is not the butterfly and it’s the work, it still requires more work to actually change our natural instinct to not react only to the butterfly/crave the fleeting “romantic” moments.

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Adulting in your 30s
Adulting in your 30s

Written by Adulting in your 30s

Musings and self reflections of a 30 something who feels like an adult but a kid at the same time

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