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So true! Often we want to blame everything on the other person, but it's very possible we are being unreasonable ourselves. I (in retrospect) collected a lot of unhealthy habits and expectations from my first relationship - that they should be able to spend time with me on dame, they should pay for everything - that I had to slowly unlearn. Thanks for sharing!

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Adulting in your 30s

Musings and self reflections of a 30 something who feels like an adult but a kid at the same time