Should you keep a “friend with benefit?”
A little bit of casual sex never hurt anyone…?
I know there are many different relationships out there. So disclaimer: I’m writing this with the assumption that you want a committed monogamous long term relationship. That is personally my goal (open to being converted at some point though 😉).
If that’s not your cup of tea, jump to the last section.
Ok, you, person who wants to find a serious long term relationship.
A friend with benefit…yes, I’m talking about the person you keep around just for sex.
And I’ll just come right out and say that a friend with benefit is never a good use of your time.
Prove me wrong.
I know, the reality is much more complicated than its sounds. It’s never just sex. You also have good conversation. You laugh together. You are a lot in common. They know just the right way to touch you and you feel safe and secure in their arms.
I mean, are they even just a “friend with benefit”?
Do you (or they) see a future together?
If your goal is a committed relationship, then any time you spend with someone who you don’t see potential in as a long term partner, or someone who…