Saying no to a first date kiss

Why is it so hard?

Adulting in your 30s
3 min readSep 13, 2023

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Sometimes I feel like I owe it to them.

Like, if they went all out and paid for the meal and then walked me home and was super nice, then I should at least let them have a kiss.

But no, my kiss — my consent — is not for sale.

A few times, I’d had people ask me if it’s okay to kiss me.

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Adulting in your 30s

Musings and self reflections of a 30 something who feels like an adult but a kid at the same time