First glad you are ok. And second I’m sorry you have to deal with that. I see this in my parents a bit. My mom has been doing the work and is open to feedback whereas my dad already thinks he knows everything and is drinking as much as in his youth despite having a kidney transplant. As an adult daughter I’m still at a loss how to approach him. I only wish therapy was more normalized so everything can have the help they need to get their sh*t together!