An apology to my ex

So I can be better for myself and the next person

Adulting in your 30s
4 min readSep 18, 2023

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Sometimes I think of them, and I think, “fuck them.”

But actually, it’s not all their fault. As much as during the relationship I tried to paint myself as the emotionally mature one, I know I am no saint.

I know it’s impossible for it to all have been their fault.

I was codependent and didn’t know it

I made you responsible for my happiness. Sure, I can handle my own stress and regulate my…

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Adulting in your 30s

Musings and self reflections of a 30 something who feels like an adult but a kid at the same time